They were playing the hits from ’66 on
KFOG this morning. I was meeting my wife
At the oncologist. Don’t be alarmed it’s
All good, they can go cell by cell to get clean
Margins these days. She doesn’t even need much
Radiation. I was expecting something
Like Iron Butterfly, but it was all Otis
The Byrds, Dylan. To celebrate we walked north
From Inspiration Point. Despite the long drought
There were orange poppies and forget-me-nots
Vernal pools with a chorus of croaking frogs.
I thought of Cape Ann, years ago, how we listened
For hours to the bullfrogs and spring peepers
Convinced that we'd found the ur source of music.
From Impasse to Intimacy:
How Understanding Unconscious Needs Can Transform Relationships
Empathy is what makes relational transformation possible, according to Shaddock, and his book is a testament to that possibility. From Impasse to Intimacy celebrates the healthy kind of dependency that can make relationships the best place to work out individual problems.
“It will keep you turning the pages”
--Maggie Scarf, author of Intimate Partners
Contexts and Connections:
An Intersubjective Systems Approach to
"David Shaddock has done a masterful job of integrating self psychology and intersubjectivity theories into a well-written, timely, practical guide to understanding and treating relational problems. His ability to bridge intrapsychic, interpersonal, and family theories, along with edifying case material, makes this a must-read for both beginning clinicians and those with long experience in couples and family therapy."
--Marion Solomon PhD, author of Narcissism and Intimacy
In This Place Where Something's Missing Lives
“David Shaddock’s poems take up the ancient Jewish tradition which Arthur Waskow (who wrote an afterword for the book) has called ‘God wrestling.”
Drawing on Hasidic and kabalistic themes, these poems explore faith and Jewish identity in the context of personal loss and political turmoil.